Today’s training explores how early developmental deficits and trauma affect the Attachment system of a young child. Supremely when shame is weaponised, we will see how a child’s security can be destroyed, leaving anxiety and self-doubt in its place. We will explore how the invasive and pervasive effects of shame lead to struggles in relationships […]
Today we will look at what emotions are, how they get blocked, and how we can help clients release them. The day will include the neuroscience of where emotions sit in the brain and the body, how we build defences against pain, including suppression and repression.
Today we will together explore the complex family dynamics of the scapegoat and the golden child through a person-centred therapeutic lens—one rooted in empathy, unconditional positive regard, and a deep belief in each individual’s innate capacity for growth and healing. In families impacted by narcissistic traits, these roles are often unconsciously assigned to meet the […]
Today we will focus on the astonishing organ that is our brain, learning more about its extraordinary powers. The plasticity of the brain gives us hope when early trauma has affected brain development and we will show how creativity can be a major source of healing. Who is the training for? Qualified counsellors, counsellors in […]
It is possible that most counsellors, at some point, will encounter a client who feels suicidal. Today is an opportunity for counsellors to come together to explore our feelings and experiences when a client no longer wants to live. During this session we will: Hear compelling and moving testimonies Look at current research Consider risk […]
This engaging course offers an opportunity to explore the idea of the ‘inner child’—what it means, why it matters, and how it can show up in the counselling room.
We are delighted to announce our 2025 Annual Deep Release Counsellors Conference, which will again be based at Moor Hall in Cookham. This full board residential weekend will include lively creative workshops, opportunities for networking and making new friends with other counsellors, great food, and a comfortable en-suite bedroom all to yourself. On the programme […]
Many clients seek counselling due to difficulties in their relationships—with family members, partners, colleagues, or within communities. These relationships can often be sources of significant distress, pain, and anger. This training will delve into the dynamics of relational breakdowns, explore pathways toward healing and reconciliation, and examine the common challenges encountered along the way. The […]
Based on Eric Berne’s ‘Games People Play’, we will look at classic blaming and avoiding games, passive aggressive games and other tactics to gain strokes by manipulation.
This course takes a fascinating, challenging and often humorous look at the games played both in and out of the counselling room.
Why is it often so hard to heal from wounds inflicted by a mother who did not meet our needs and how do we come to terms with lack of maternal love in the way we needed it?
Today we will explore different kinds of difficult mothering, considering how this can shape our self concept, and the maternal transference that often is present in the counselling room.